Ok, for the last time, DO NOT message me at 7am regardless of anything, unless its an emergency. And worse, recieving messages that makes you pissed off at that time aint very fun. Twice this has happened, and lucky thing i was already heading home from work, so it wouldnt spoil my mood at work. AND if you're not my parents, you have no right to tell me what to do or control my life.

So headed out with gen aft a mere 7 hours of rest, somehow feeling really energetic still (wierd i know) after 9 and a half hours of work without rest at night. shopped for personal stuffs, headed down to marina to get roses for audrey's dance, rushed through dinner, sam arrived and shared cause we didnt really have enough time. managed to reach there in time. audrey's performance was really good! bumped into a senior from IJ! amazingly she could still recognize gen and i! and she's still as good looking as ever!! ah..genetics..if only everyone had that perfect gene! haha

so anyways, topic of conversation for the day : communication and honesty when in a relationship.
was pretty random but we were just wondering, how far would one go to tell a white lie or even lie for that matter to someone you love. and we kinda figured, a white lie would be the last resort (if need be). we'd always tell the truth whether you like it or not, its the truth and nothing would change that. and its best to let your other half know what you do or did in the past,at least, if its in the early part of the r/s you can still salvage and whatever, as opposed to when you guys get really serious and then, when you decide to tell the truth, if the other half can take it, good for you! if he/she cant, then the relationship has just been a catastrophe waiting to happen.

we then moved on to another topic : the EX.
we all (those in the conversation) haf issues about them but we learn to deal with it, we may be unhappy about you meeting him/her and what not, but ultimately, if you guys still maintain close contact with each other, we, as the other halves, cant do anything about it but to DEAL with it.we'd tell you how we feel about it, but we dont expect you guys to just ignore the friendship that you once shared with them. we cant help it if they have a past, we all have pasts, its just whether we ended it amicably or not. we cant, just because we're not happy about it, cause you to be antisocial, zhong se qing you, or totally NOT let you talk to your exs. Not everyone ends their relationship in a bad way, i know of many who still remain friends and go on to date other people, but still maintain good contact. basically, it boils down to TRUST. one of the key points when in a relationship.

ok, so all these are just based on what afew close friends and i think. different people may have different opinions, maybe some of you would think, break up means the end, you should be hostile and all. but like i said, each his own, and its my blog, i say what i want. if you're not happy dont read. you know who you are.

it was a pretty good conversation, and we concluded, if a person lies, maybe he/she has her reasons, but its definitely not a healthy relationship to start with.

was talking to him about it, and straight forward as he is, he told me not to worry, cause if there's anything, he'd tell me and he knows i'd tell him too. which is really comforting to know =)

moving on, i saw the duty roster, i seriously dont get it, she's making the local chinese work on the first day on chinese new year. like WHAT THE HELL, while she gives the PRCs both days off. i dont get it, they need to pay respects to who?!?! not say i want to be bad, but, their families are like 10000000miles away!! we, locals, on the other hand, has to wake up in the morning and get our parents blessings, then moving on to the cemetries to pay respect to our dearly deceased. arghhhh, she should go for some course to plan better!! and yes, i am working on CNY's first day, hence the angst. hopefully she does change *crosses fingers*